For Married Couples: Solving Problems In Marriage(Contd)

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Some things should be avoided in solving family problems. A spouse should not shout when talking to the partner especially before their children. It does not solve the problem. Dont share your problems with anybody even your best friend. The person you may go to is your pastor. I mean someone that is really a pastor and not the one that will use it as a case study in his message. Dont breakdown and start weeping before your husband or wife. Say the problem in plain language. Dont refuse to eat the food cooked by your wife and shun communication with her. Dont even mention divorce or compare him or her with others around. Have a forgiving spirit and attitude. Your children will definitely learn all you practise before them and demonstrate it. Be willing to talk and be willing to make ammends. For singles,you may read this to get the knowledge for the future. You can also copy this to someone having family problem around you. When Jesus is in a home,their is happiness but when He is absent,their is crisis. Marriage is to be enjoyed and not to be endured.

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